Hey, I’m Indigo

I’m the woman behind She’s Still Becoming — and just like the women I created this space for, I’m still becoming too.

I create this space for women who are healing, rebuilding, finding themselves out, or simply trying to become the woman they know is still in there somewhere.

And I didn’t create this space because I have everything figured out. I created it because I’m still becoming too.

I know what it feels like to live in survival mode for so long that you forget what it feels like to simply be. To pour so much of yourself into getting through the day, taking care of everyone else, and handling whatever life throws at you that somewhere along the way, you lose pieces of yourself.

She’s Still Becoming grew out of my own journey of finding those pieces again.

This space is about healing without pretending healing is pretty. Learning boundaries. Rebuilding confidence. Changing the way we speak to ourselves. Creating routines that actually work in real life. Giving ourselves permission to rest, start over, change our minds, and outgrow the versions of ourselves that were built just to survive.

Here you’ll find honest conversations, practical tools, journal prompts, worksheets, resources, and reflections designed to help you understand where you are, reconnect with yourself, and intentionally move toward where we want to be.

Some days becoming looks like growth. Some days it looks like setting a boundary you should’ve set years ago. Some days it looks like getting your life together. And some days it looks like surviving the damn day and trying again tomorrow.

All of it counts.

Because becoming HER isn’t about waking up one morning as some perfectly healed version of yourself. It’s about choosing yourself — again and again — as you become HER.

And if you’re still becoming too, you belong here. 🦋✨